March is Trisomy Awareness Month. It doesn’t garner the same
attention as Autism Awareness Month or scream “join the cause” like Cancer
Awareness Month (both equally important causes). Maybe it’s because of the
infant mortality rates associated with many of the trisomies; maybe because it
doesn’t have a celebrity spokesperson. Who knows. But I certainly knew little
to nothing about trisomies before having children. Sure, I knew of Trisomy 21
(Down syndrome) and had briefly skimmed the page in my pregnancy book about Trisomy
18, mostly ignoring it because a chromosomal abnormality in one of my
pregnancies seemed next to impossible.
Trisomy 18 (also known as Edwards syndrome for the
geneticist who discovered it in the 1960s) happens when there are three copies
of chromosome 18 rather than the typical two. There are variations of the
syndrome: mosaicism (not present in every cell), translocations (a
rearrangement of parts between chromosomes), deletions (part of a chromosome is
missing), and full (where all cells contain an extra copy). How was that for a
genetics lesson in a nutshell? Of course, it is much more involved than that
and there are even greater variations or combinations of trisomies present in some
individuals.
Zane has full Trisomy 18. Every cell in his body contains an
extra copy of chromosome 18. The implications of this are great and the
statistics are grim. It is not rare as it is second only to Down syndrome and
occurs in 1:7000 births according to SOFT. Approximately 50% die in utero. Of those babies
actually born, 50% more die within the first month of so of their lives. Less
than 10% celebrate their first birthdays. For those who survive (like Zane)
there are over 130 possible anomalies, some of which are hugely serious: heart
issues, renal problems, central apnea (we know that one from personal
experience), and ongoing medical interventions throughout the life of the
individual.
So why is Trisomy Awareness Month important? Because there
are many families affected by trisomy—not just 21 or 18. Many have lost
children before, during, or after birth. Those children were family members—as important
as any other person in their household. There are numerous families (like ours)
raising children with trisomies. And it is not easy. There are many rewards for
caregivers and families, but also great hardships and the constant need to
advocate. And more often than not, there is very little support for families
who have become intimately familiar with a trisomy. Many feel isolated and
alone.
So I simply ask for your awareness. You may be surprised by
the number of people who have been touched by trisomy, but silently carry this
around with them. Talk about missing loved ones with parents, acknowledge their
children as the beautiful babies or kids they were, or simply hug a caregiver. We are a strong bunch. I know this from all the amazing moms (and some
dads) I’ve met during our journey. But we’re not invincible.
Hi Susan. Thank you for all you do to educate people about Trisomy 18 and share your story about Zane. I nominated you for a Liebster award:
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